In the great wide world of prospects, its likely that your future relationship with them relies strongly on a few vital points. But before we move onto those points, I thought I'd share with you an analogy. It builds upon the interesting dating angle I've been speaking about the last few days, and it goes a little like this.
Approaching your best prospect is like approaching the hottest guy or girl in a night club. Their world is clouded by the smoke, the alcohol and the roar of hundreds of voices around them- and from that smoke and deafening music, your perfect date is accosted by potential suitors almost as frequently as the bass drums out a beat.
This is a lot like our average client in the real world of business. Their perceptions are clouded by their own beliefs, fears and worries, not to mention pressing needs, like a screaming child or a bill that needs to be paid by 5 o'clock. The constant stream of hopefuls approaching your perfect date is like the advertising we're bombarded with every day. And your prospects, like the hot date, just tend to get sick and tired of being propositioned every moment of every day, and will begin to tune everything out... even if doing so means they might miss something great now and then.
And like dating, if you can get the hot date's friend to introduce you, you're way, WAY ahead of the pack. Or maybe you can approach her friends, her influence group or network, and start to make friends there. If someone else thinks you're normal, then down go your hot date's defenses, and you're ahead.
And much like a smoke filled pub, if you can get in early, before every other drunk guy and girl turns up, you're also head of the pack. I'm talking here about creating your own category (read Positioning by Trout/Ries), or being the first to create a new product, or being the first to service an existing group in a new and better way. When you're there first, and you take action to secure your prospect's loyalty, you're way ahead (just act fast!).
Or perhaps you're a thinker, and you ask the bartender what your hot date is into. When you understand your prospects better you can establish strong relationships with them, and you can keep your finger on their pulse. You may find something interesting as you go about understanding them better. For example, I've recently become interested in straight bladed razors so I can define my beard better- but what I've found is that men don't use straight razors to get the best, closest shave, they use them because its a ritual, a tradition, and an experience that grounds them, relaxes them and makes them feel special, unique. Is there something that you're missing about your customers that could really fire up your marketing activities to them? Are you selling water that quenches thirst when its water that maintains optimal health that they're after? Are you selling shoes that are the popular fashion when your customers view them as an statement of uniqueness?
Are you trying to buy the hottest prospect in the room a drink, like everyone else does? Doug D'Anna sent an email to his list today boldly titled "Why Free Doesn't Work Anymore", and I think this applies so well to trying to get that hot date. When that hot guy or girl has had a hundred drinks bought for them, they begin to realize something very important- the person buying the drinks wants something in return! And further up go the walls of resistance. The same goes for your business (especially selling online where information is so easily given away), are you offering the 100th free drink to your prospect? They're wise to you already!
Hey- they might take the drink, but are they going to go home with you?
Next time- how to maintain a healthy (marketing) relationship.